Is it okay to just slide into a complete stranger's DW over here and comment on their latest post as if you've known them for years? Or would a "hello, I hope you don't mind that I subscribed to you, I saw that we shared an interest in [whatever]" need to come first?
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Date: 2021-03-10 02:56 am (UTC)From:In any case I came over to say hello and say that I noticed you subscribing to my journal. I hope between the two of us we can breathe a bit of energy into the Permaculture journal...
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Date: 2021-03-10 09:32 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2021-03-10 03:12 am (UTC)From:But hi! :D
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Date: 2021-03-12 02:07 am (UTC)From:The only widespread etiquette policy on commenting that I know of at DW is that people will sometimes post their personal policies on comments and follows, either on their profile or in a sticky post at the top of their journal. Also, some people prefer that you ask before linking to a post - but the last time I asked someone for permission to link to their post, they chewed me out for wasting their time with a question to which the answer was obviously yes. :) So there's no guarantee that someone won't snap at you for something.
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Date: 2021-03-12 10:26 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2021-03-13 05:40 am (UTC)From:Oh, do. There are so many lovely people here. I usually find people through comments they've made to posts by people I'm already following. Also, the communities are a good place to meet people, though they're not as active as I'd like.
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Date: 2021-03-16 02:46 pm (UTC)From:I so miss the conversations I used to have in fandom. Are there many going on at Pillowfort?
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Date: 2021-03-16 03:19 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2021-03-20 06:41 am (UTC)From:Whoops, sorry; I misremembered an earlier conversation.
I'm finding there's good meme fic at Tumblr; I just wish it was easier to locate it. I've found some accounts that track Space Australia stories, but there must be lots of other stories floating around there.
As far as conversations go . . . Yeah, it's sort of a weird format for that.
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Date: 2021-03-20 02:30 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2021-03-21 05:50 am (UTC)From:My fandom is originalfic. :) Which has often made it difficult to track fic. Back in the 00s, there were some communities devoted to originalfic, at LJ and elsewhere. But they all seem to have died. The Slash Pile at Tumblr is still stumbling along, but last I checked, it was mainly webcomic recs.
I tried Wattpad, but the quality of noise to good fic was just too high. So I keep my eye on the Original Work tag at AO3, but I really miss the conversations that we originalfic writers and readers used to have.
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Date: 2021-03-21 12:07 pm (UTC)From:(And yes, I tried Wattpad too, but as you say. They encourage a style of writing I don't enjoy.)
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Date: 2021-03-21 04:47 pm (UTC)From:(Happily does a quick web search.) Yup, I thought so - we were hanging out at LJ during the same time period. And since you say in the 2006 thread I found that you were writing m/m romance then, we were also hanging out in the m/m romance community during that same time period. Betcha our paths crossed. :)
This is just icing on the cake; I'd already started to sense we'd get along well. Would you care to move this conversation to email?
http://duskpeterson.com/#contact
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Date: 2021-03-22 10:10 am (UTC)From:I suppose it does make sense to take the chat off the public record! Part of the reason why I reverted to a fannish DW under a pseud was because blogging under my pen name felt so much like a public performance I ended up censoring myself into silence. I'll go and send you a short hello rn.
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Date: 2021-03-22 01:15 pm (UTC)From:Got your email and will reply to it! I thought I should say here, though, about Pixel-Stained: I should warn you that that volume is only about my first six months in the slash community.
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Date: 2021-03-20 12:56 pm (UTC)From:Here's hoping we can dance again this year! Who do you dance with?
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Date: 2021-03-20 08:07 pm (UTC)From:So, I dance with a Cotswold team called Wakerobin, in Massachusetts (they are in my profile pic). We do Fieldtown and Oddington, mostly, and then I also dance on a Molly team. And you?
BTW, I love the Murderbot books with every fiber of my being.
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Date: 2021-03-20 10:22 pm (UTC)From:And yes, that was about the time I left LJ as well. I wish I'd managed to import my LJ into DW, but I didn't. And like you I found it just too quiet here and went off to try and find somewhere else. But DW has certainly stood the test of time, given that it's here still, ten years later :) It's nice to think that perhaps people are actually drifting back.
I dance with Sutton Masque, Ely & Littleport Riot Border morris, and Coton Morris, which is a Cotswold side. I normally play the whistle for them all too, but I've been learning to play the melodeon over the lockdown, so by the time we're dancing again I might be doing that :)
Oh yes! I love the Murderbot books too. I read through all of the books and then I bought all the audiobooks as well, and now they're probably my number one comfort read. The narrator of the audiobooks is very good. I've just started listening from All Systems Red again today, in fact :) they're so kindly, and you can't say that of many books
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Date: 2021-03-23 12:07 am (UTC)From:Coincidentally Kobo (what I use for audiobooks) just offered 2 of the Murderbot books at a good sale price so I bought them, and am looking forward to hearing them. I read them all, some of them twice and I have the new one preordered. I also loved the Goblin Emperor, which I saw in your list, and Arkady Martine's A Memory Called Empire. Last few months, I've leaned heavily into audiobooks, though. I'm hoping to get more focus and attention span again soon so I can actually sit and read. What crazy times.
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Date: 2021-03-24 10:04 am (UTC)From:I have all the Murderbot audiobooks, and I have all the books :) It's a different experience reading them to the experience of hearing them, but both are good. Also, I don't think it's so much a matter of focus and attention span, rather having enough free time to dedicate to reading. I can listen to an audiobook when I'm cleaning the kitchen, or cooking, or digging the garden etc, so audiobooks make it possible to read a book while simultaneously doing something else.
Also ooh. Yes, I adore The Goblin Emperor, which makes me think that since I share that with you too, I might like A Memory Called Empire which I hadn't heard of before. So I've just bought that! Fingers crossed :)
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Date: 2021-03-26 07:09 pm (UTC)From:And yes I use audiobooks all the time now and that's sometimes the only way I can get anything done at all!
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Date: 2021-03-27 07:14 pm (UTC)From: